I read an interesting article the other day by Jennifer Hartline for Catholic Online that pointed out that the word ‘compassion’ is often misused by Christians, particularly in discussion of contentious moral issues. I would go a bit further and say that the word ‘love’ is misused as well.
Consider, for a moment, a road-rager. He zips across lanes, tailgates, cuts people off, gestures, and so on as he drives on your local freeways. The road-rager, however, is a fine man—he has a wife and children, a respectable job, and volunteers at his local soup kitchen. Let’s say you live in the same neighborhood as this man, but don’t know him personally. In conversation with a mutual friend, you ask if he knows who the ‘guy in the black BMW’ is . . . you know, the one who tears around the neighborhood like a maniac and creates a dangerous situation on the highways. We should report him to the police, you say.
But the mutual neighbor, instead of agreeing with you, scolds you! The guy in the BMW is a good man, after all, and you then get a thirty-minute lecture on being more loving and compassionate toward your neighbor.
